Some things are fated to occur but in many ways we create our destiny. Have faith that what is meant for you will come to you. At the same time, empower yourself to create your destiny rather than waiting for it all to happen. You may be waiting a long time. And there really is no better time than the present.
We are fated to undergo certain experiences in our lives and meet certain people, but we also have choices in how we handle and react to these experiences. For example, we can stay in a bad relationship and wait for it to end by itself and then spend a lifetime being unhappy in that relationship. Or we can choose to act and move on.
Make the most of your destiny by creating and manifesting your own reality. Sometimes in a clairvoyant reading, something you may not want to happen seems likely. But this is why choice is so empowering because if you take a careful look at your life through a reading you can see more clearly where you are heading and change the course of events or ensure that you make the best of your experiences.
Create your destiny. Don't wait for it.
If you are struggling with this, read "Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway" by Susan Jeffers This book is life changing. Enjoy the journey.